April 3, 2008
The new femininity
This article from Robin Wilson is so charming that I will not summarize it. You need to read it in full:
Oklahoma City University has a long history as an educator of beauty queens. Twenty-six of its students have captured the Miss Oklahoma banner, and three of those have gone on to be crowned Miss America. Larger-than-life bronze statues of them stand in a fountain at the entrance to the university.But a mile from there, just off the campus, 20 other young women practice a talent that's never been on display in a Miss America pageant. They sweat and swear in shorts and T-shirts as they drill their takedowns on a blue-and-white wrestling mat. "Watch out!" one of them warns a visitor who is standing next to a plastic container during practice. "That's the spit can."
The female wrestling team is brand-new this year at Oklahoma City, one of only six American college teams for women. But the sport's visibility has been on the rise since 2004, when female freestyle wrestling became an Olympic event.
Archie Randall, who is 56 and stout, with a graying buzz cut, was hired to start a men's wrestling team here in 2006. He was the winningest high-school coach in the history of Oklahoma, a state where wrestling is king. He knew that 6,500 young women wrestle in high schools nationwide, most of them against boys on predominantly male teams, and he wanted to give some of the best competitors another opportunity to wrestle in college. But he knew that the way to sell a new team was to talk about money. "I can get you 30 girls, and you're gonna get a half a million dollars" in tuition, he told Oklahoma City's athletic director, James Abbott.
Mr. Abbott has taken some ribbing since he signed off on the women's team: "I've had a few folks saying, Is it going to be mud wrestling?" But after watching a few matches, he's hooked. "They are no different than soccer players, rowers, baseball players, or any other athlete," he says. "They are just as serious and work extraordinarily hard."
When Mr. Randall started the women's program, last summer, he signed up 33 young women in six weeks. The university gives the team eight scholarships, for a total of $214,320 a year, the same as for the men's team. This season his wrestlers, the Stars, beat the top-ranked women's program, at the University of the Cumberlands, in Kentucky, although Cumberlands beat the Stars at two other matches. The Stars have also competed in California, Missouri, Arizona, and Michigan. And Mr. Randall played host last month to one of the largest tournaments ever for female wrestlers, drawing nearly 400 girls, from elementary school through college, to Oklahoma City's campus.
As his team's first season winds to a close, Mr. Randall is down to just 20 young women. Some left because the practice schedule was too hard. "I don't care what time of the month it is," he tells them, "you still have to practice, and you have to lift" weights.
What Mr. Randall has learned, though, is that the young women can be just as tough as the men. "They kick and cuss," he says, "same as the boys."
The male and female wrestlers share a cramped and dank practice facility off-campus, in what was once a church. The makeshift locker rooms have wooden cubbyholes, and a stair machine and a treadmill sit in a small entryway, where the wrestlers work off last-minute ounces before weigh-ins.
Winding through the narrow hallway that connects the locker rooms and the practice room, it's not unusual to see a guy standing naked on a scale. Maybe because they are always weighing themselves, it isn't strange for wrestlers to strip down almost anywhere.
Mr. Randall was surprised that female wrestlers were just as immodest as the men. "I am always shouting: 'Girls, get your clothes on!'" he says.
Some of the female wrestlers here date guys on the men's team. And some of the young women, says Mr. Randall, date one another. The rules are the same for both kinds of relationships: "No holding hands, no affection in the practice room or at any public places."
Mr. Randall knows some people believe there is no place for women in the rough sport of wrestling. But he wants to show that his competitors can be feminine and be wrestlers at the same time. That's why he insists that they be neat and well groomed, and that they fix their hair and paint their nails before each meet. None of the young women seem to mind. When one of them walks by his office before practice one day, he yells: "Erica, what are we when we're off the mat?" "Ladies," answers Erica Lee Torres, a Californian who is wearing a bright-red hoodie, red suede boots, and black nail polish.
Ms. Torres is a freshman in the 112-pound weight class. She started wrestling in the fourth grade and was the only girl on her high-school team. She was a tomboy who played football with the boys at recess. This is the first time in her life that she has been surrounded by women. "The girls here have shown me 'girl world,'" she says. "They've been teaching me about hair and makeup. I was like, So, this is what girls are like."
Some of the young women here were passed over for varsity spots in high school even though they could beat male wrestlers. And male competitors usually weren't glad to see them on the mat. Some boys refused to wrestle the girls, preferring to lose by forfeit. "I've heard stuff like, 'I don't know where to grab her,' and 'It's against my religion to wrestle a girl,'" says Sheila McCabe, a 138-pounder. Other guys, she says, "would pull our hair, punch us, and run us into the ground."
The young women here who were used to wrestling boys in high school have had to adjust their style. Boys typically dominate girls in strength but are much less flexible and not always as quick. Nicole Woody, a 105-pound freshman, was used to waiting for boys to shoot in to grab her legs and then using her flexibility to sprawl away from a takedown. "I counter, I wait," she says. "But girls don't ever take a shot, so my style clashes with what girls do." She has a 10-8 record here.
At nearly 25 years old, Ashley Sword is the team's most experienced wrestler and an Olympic hopeful. She spent five years after high school wrestling at the U.S. Olympic Training Center, in Colorado Springs. She's the only woman here with cauliflower ear, a condition in which the ear has been banged and twisted so much that it fills with fluid. Ms. Sword has also had three knee surgeries, fractured a vertebra, torn ligaments in both elbows, and broken her nose three times — the last time so badly that it pushed her front teeth back.
But "when I'm laying in bed," she says, "and I look up and see the award that says national champion, which I won two times, it's so worth it."
Freedom when it is really lived encourages eccentricity and idiosyncracy--which in turn can expand our collective sense of what is possible, acceptable, normal, and even good. I'd say the Oklahoma City University women's wrestling team is a lovely little experiment in lived freedom. I also think it's going to make a great movie.
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Oh, great!
The program is nice to see -- for years this school has exalted its beauty-queen "women as decoration" dimension (to the extent that the bronze statue the story mentions replaced one of the last signs on campus which identified OCU with the church that started it it). Basketball games with talented female athletes showcased sleazy dance routines during timeouts. Here's hoping this change will be kneaded into the rest of the campus life.
He wants them to be feminine so he insists they paint their nails? Someone needs to set him straight. Painting nails shows a faulty aesthetic sense and superficiality. When I see it--especially when it's black nail polish-- my first thought is that she's trying to conceal a bad case of nail fungus.
I'm also sympathetic to the male wrestlers who won't wrestle females. If they win, then everyone says, well you beat a girl. If they lose, it's embarrassing. And yes, they do have to be careful where they touch the girls.
Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but I fail to see what is so "charming" about young women breaking each other's noses, fracturing their vertebrae, and enduring multiple knee surgeries by the age of twenty-four, all in the name of proving that they can wrassle like the boys. Dr. O'Connor, you might see this as "a lovely little experiment in lived freedom," but some of us do actually prefer the "old femininity" to this brutish "Million Dollar Baby" version.
Three words: Are you SERIOUS?
I'm a conservative college-educated mother of two teenage girls, the oldest of whom will be starting college in 2010 (her sister in 2013). I support freedom, which is why I encourage my daughters to value their educations and pursue careers. But I have also raised them to carry themselves with grace and self-respect. I normally enjoy your blog, and you've given me lot sof things to watch out for when my children go to college -- but I just had to voice my strong disagreement with this posting.
To be blunt, I'm not at all "charmed" by a vision of a "new femininity" that involves young women cursing, spitting, and breaking each other's noses. In fact, this article set off about five thousand warning bells in my head. College women walking around naked in front of their fifty-something male coach? Dressing and doing their hair/nails to his specifications? And all while he brags "I can get you 30 girls, and you're gonna get a half a million dollars"? Can't you imagine some seedy low-life sex trafficker saying the same thing?
These young women are suffering serious injuries that will be with them for the rest of their lives. That last poor woman will be a physical wreck by the time she's in her fifties -- only she doesn't realize it yet. If I had to choose between some championship medal and my dignity and health, I know which I'd pick.
If my daughters got involved in this program, I would hardly sit at home celebrating their participation in "a lovely little experiment in lived freedom." I would see them getting exploited and hurt, while their school raked in the money, and while some lascivious coach got to ogle their bodies in the locker room. I suppose it could be a movie -- but not any movie I'd want to watch.
I second Liz's comment on this topic. Hear, hear!
Mary Ann (mother of 3 girls & 1 boy)
Good luck on the wrestling teams chance for an Olympic competition in four years. I am very glad to see that there is so much going in the womens wrestling program in your city. I'm also from Porterville, California and related to Erica Lee Torres (her grandfather & my Mother Tomasa were brother & sister). I'm very proud of Erica and especially proud that her Dad Eric & family are there to pursue her dreams! Just by chance I found out that she was in wrestling through the local Porterville newspaper. Keep up the good work and we hope to see the women's wrestling team move into the Olympics in 2012!!
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